In the Mind of a Sociopath

{January 5, 2013}   Sociopath’s Most Beloved Trait

What you are about to read is something that is 100% true, and I am proud of this ability.

My trait I love the most about myself is my ability to manipulate others. I have been amazed at what I can get others to do for me, even with the smallest relationship– from giving me money, to committing crimes, to mutilating their own bodies for me. These lies were well thought out, and resembled an intricately woven web. There are several of these webs I have created, some still being created, some very old and forgotten with time. Sometimes, when my webs were being threatened by a particular person, I would have to excommunicate that individual from the cluster of people in the same web (this rarely happened, however, because I would push buttons on the person to entice them to keep quiet– having them do wrong doings for me, use bad things in my past as a large part of the lie so they would morally feel they couldn’t gossip about what I told them without exposing that part of my personal life, etc ). Humans are easily read. I have discovered that, at this time, if a connection is made with a person (even just recently), then a large bomb is thrown at them such as being confided in with traumatic experiences of one’s past (along with some tears and weeping), they will be very adamant about helping you with whatever you need, even if it is completely unrelated. I have learned, though, how to make everything relate to everything. Here is a situation very easily followed through by myself, step by step, from an acquaintance.

1. Find someone that seems trusting of people, kind, and sympathetic. Preferably someone you see only out of your way, but can see every day (in case later you need to abandon them)

2. Introduce yourself. Ask them questions about themselves. Start out asking very basic questions and quickly identify yourself with the person with similar interests. Get them talking though, make them feel comfortable with you and make them like your company. Pretend interested.

3. Once conversation has run out of average questions to ask, start digging. Ask about parental situations, siblings, past situations. Offer up info about your life (real or exaggerated). Find their hot spots; have they had a friend that was suicidal? Had a family member that abused drugs? To get them talking about it, you start the conversation. When they answer about their parents, you reply that you had a hard childhood and ask if they can identify with that. Be sure to listen to the way they talk about these subjects. If they seem sad but soft, that means they might be an enabler which you can use. If they seem hard and angry at the people they talk about, stay clear. It means they most likely will push you away if you try to use those subjects. Keep up with these questions until you find out what they are sensitive to  and will willingly “enable” towards, but do it at a normal-conversation type of flow (which may take several days or weeks).

4. Once you find what they are sensitive to, research it. Find out common symptoms of that behavior (research how those “at risk” of whatever the subject is sensitive to act at the beginning of their troubles) but make it obvious. The person will pick up on it and quickly try to get the truth of “what’s going on” with you. Always be reluctant to give up info in the beginning but not so reluctant that they will give up. If you feel it is taking too long for the person to ask you, then act depressed for a day then come up to them when they are in a group and ask to talk privately. According to your personal skill and the person you are dealing with, you can steer the conversation into several directions- A) you are doing the acts B) your parents are doing the acts C) your boyfriend/girlfriend is doing the act, etc  Make it a big enough deal to you that it becomes personal to them too. Describe some situations that the person has done (the one that you said are doing the acts) that has hurt you, whether these be true, exaggerated, or fake.

5. The best lies are mixed with truth. Always use names that you already know and that have belonged to real people. Chose a person in your past (maybe a long  past childhood friend?) and bring that person to life. This will make it much easier to remember your lies. Make sure right off the bat your subject knows there isn’t any way they could contact the other person (but get them to realize it on their own, don’t say it. Mention they go to a different work place, school, don’t allow their numbers to be given out and you are scared for yourself to give out info, etc.

6. Mention several times at several different occasions alone with the subject (best spread out a few days a part) things that have happened recently (again true or not) and how depressed you are over it. Once this is accomplished, you have established sympathy. But, it isn’t normal sympathy. This sympathy is very deep, they care for you, your situation. They worry about you, think about you when they are alone.

7. Use them as you please. You would be amazed at what they will do for you (even if it hurts themselves).


This method is only one of several I use to get new recruits to use and get things out of. It is different if the person has a crush on you or has some outstanding relationship with you already. This method is very basic, with someone you don’t really know, and to get tasks done for you that you need. Money is also freely given from someone used like this, as well as willingness to lie to others (which means that they can be used as a pawn in a different lie to use someone else).

Realize this article is created for information, and yes, is completely normal in a sociopath’s mind. If you think this is “bad” it is because you don’t think like us, and should not be reading this blog if you are going to get upset at the things posted here. Comment questions you have and I will create new posts answering the questions in length.


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